Q: I’m pretty sure I know what intimacy is and we just don’t have it. Why should I try to enhance it after so long without it?

–Intimacy is the deep sense of closeness and connection between partners. It involves emotional and physical bonds that foster a sense of security and mutual understanding. By clearly defining intimacy, our course helps couples recognize its importance and work towards strengthening these bonds, ultimately leading to a more resilient and fulfilling relationship. If you want to have a fulfilling, long-term monogamous relationship, physical intimacy must be present.

Q: Is this course right for me/us?

–If you are experiencing frustration, resentment, or conflict due to unmet intimacy needs, this course provides tools and insights to address these issues. It helps you understand the root causes of intimacy problems and offers practical strategies to enhance your relationship’s emotional and physical closeness. Whether you’re in a loving but sexless relationship or struggling to get on the same page about intimacy, this course can bring about meaningful change.

Q: What if my partner doesn’t see a problem or worse, won’t even participate?

–While it’s beneficial if both partners participate, you can still make significant progress on your own. The course provides you with the knowledge and skills to improve your own understanding of intimacy, set healthy boundaries, and communicate more effectively. Often, positive changes in one partner can inspire the other to engage and participate over time.

Q: I’m single, how can I benefit from this course?

–Understanding your attachment style, intimacy preferences, and communication strategies can greatly enhance your future relationships. The course helps you build a solid foundation for intimacy, making you more prepared and secure when you enter a new relationship.

Q: I’m on the verge of a divorce, will this help save the relationship?

–While every situation is unique, this course offers tools that can help you and your partner understand each other better, improve communication, and address underlying issues that may be contributing to your relationship struggles. If both partners are willing to work on the relationship, this course can provide a pathway to healing and reconnection. Sometimes, just addressing the missing pieces in your relationship can help you to come up with a plan for how to start to reconnect.

Q: Should I start he course if I haven’t read the book?

–You’ll definitely get the most out of the course if you also read the book and vice versa. But, the concepts covered in the course are meant to help your relationship on their own.