As I share in Chapter 1 of my book, “Sex is indeed natural, but it doesn’t always come naturally.” This statement resonates with so many couples who feel like they’re supposed to have everything figured out when it comes to their physical relationship. You may have thought that once you found the right partner, everything would just fall into place—but that’s not always the case.
When physical intimacy doesn’t flow as smoothly as expected, it can create feelings of frustration, disappointment, and even self-doubt. You might start questioning whether something is wrong with your relationship or whether you’re truly compatible. The truth is, sex, like all forms of intimacy, requires ongoing effort, communication, and adaptability.
My book helps couples navigate these struggles by offering practical tools to understand their own Intimacy Style, as well as their partner’s. By embracing these differences, you can build a more meaningful connection, free from unrealistic expectations. Instead of feeling stuck, you can begin to enjoy a more natural, satisfying relationship, knowing that it’s perfectly normal for intimacy to evolve and require intentional care. Let “The 4 Intimacy Styles” be your companion on this journey toward the fulfilling physical connection you truly desire.
