As I share in Chapter 1 of my book, “To be chosen, again and again, checks the box for one of the greatest human needs: to be desired.” If you’ve ever felt like your partner isn’t choosing you the way they used to, it can stir up feelings of rejection, loneliness, and self-doubt. You may find yourself questioning your desirability or worrying that the spark between you has faded.
These feelings can create a barrier in both emotional and physical intimacy, making it harder to reconnect and rekindle the passion you once shared. My book helps couples understand this deep need for desire and provides actionable steps to reignite that sense of being chosen by your partner—over and over again.
Feeling desired is essential for a healthy, thriving relationship, and it doesn’t just happen by chance. By understanding your intimacy styles and embracing each other’s needs, you can cultivate an ongoing sense of desire, reigniting the emotional and physical connection you crave. Let “The 4 Intimacy Styles” guide you toward creating a relationship where you feel chosen, appreciated, and desired, every day.
